Are You the Side Chick?

 Sometimes you think he is all yours, but babe think twice, he has other plans! Everybody likes to be exclusively loved, you know, belonging to one particular person and that person only, but that does not rule out the fact that it doesn't entirely work like that all the time.
Women especially are quite emotional and clingy, it's just in our nature; we are born good lovers! Back to the topic, just because you don't know you're the side chick, doesn't mean that you're not *side eye*. Today, I'm going to give you some red flag signs that would help you deduce if you are or not, brace yourself!

He is not available on special days; like Val's day, his birthday, your birthday and holidays. If you call him on his birthday, there is no excitement , it's just a flat baritone voice on the other end of the line.

He is not calling you his girlfriend; when he wants to introduce you to his friends, colleagues or even relatives. He just introduces you by your name.

Trust your instincts; if you feel he doesn't have your time, cut yourself off to prevent stories that touch.

He's protective of his phone; due to his player syndrome and also passwords his phone to prevent easy access.

He's always busy; and when he makes out time for you, it is quite minimal. He comes at odd times and leaves almost immediately, preventing you both from spending quality time together. You rarely get a text from him and he doesn't call back immediately, if he misses your call.

You randomly cannot meet up with him; every meeting must be fore planned and there isn't room for last minute showups.

He's never angry if you cancel; instead of being angry if you cancel a date with him, he is somewhat relieved *ironical right*? He never gets jealous of other guys around you as well!

You don't know his family or friends; thus you're unfamiliar with his inner circles, instead you're the one he complains to about a particular girl ( i.e the main chick! )

He doesn't connect with you on an emotional or mental level; it is all about the physical, how your body looks good or what he wants to do to your body.

You rarely go out to public places together; no date night because he doesn't want to be seen by someone he knows! No holding of hands in public places or public display of affection.

Above all, he has no future plans for you; ask him "what plans do you have for me?" his dodgy response would be "don't worry, just watch".

Babes, if you are experiencing a few of this tips, shine your eyes and do something as soon as possible, advisably leave that relationship (situationship, lol).

Remember, who run the world, girls!!!