Thursday, 29 January 2015

Relationship Brouhaha

I was getting settled as the day rolled by when a friend of mine texted me "babe how far, you know that feeling when you meet a new person and all that anticipation that follows!"
I replied her, "I could totally relate to that..."
Endlessly receiving calls, burning out airtime till it's finished then switching to chatting on social media! You both are beaming with excitement at the inception and you both tickle each others fancy!
It then gets to a point where you no longer listen to your instincts, infact you practically numb them sef! Then you start doing things out of your way,out of your comfort zone, out of the very ordinary just because your into this person and hope for a possible relationship!
Then my friend texted me "I'm sad babe,i really don't understand the guy oh,it's like he has brain touch! Been waiting, no text, no call, nothing! he doesn't even return my calls,what is wrong with me now?"
I could tell she liked the guy and she was sad that things were not working out like she hoped.
Then I figured! When emotions begin to creep in, one party just goes MIA, like that! It becomes a case of ending before it even started...
Then your left alone deep in thought, analyzing, trying to recap everything from when you both met, trying to figure out if there was something you did or didn't do!  Then finally placing the other person in an elevated place while you are below seeking for the person's face and before you know it your gradually loosing yourself.
What's your closest to being in an anticipated relationship, mine was quite...*wink*

7 comments:

  1. More!!! More... I love it, but why did you stop abruptly. I think both guys and girls experience this brouhaha. Hope there is a sequel.

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  2. Nice one but I believe guys are victims more than gals

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  3. A sequel to this post is coming soon

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  4. What is brouhaha?

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  5. Anonymous, brouhaha is wahala, lol

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  6. I have experienced this and done this to others. More of the latter. Maybe when I get to find out something I can't stay with I might just withdraw

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